世事無常...

此刻才深深明白到，就算是友情也可以因為小事而變得脆弱。

只有親情。

有好幾個晚上，我未能參透這個道理。原來，一直是自己天真。

以為最煩的細佬，竟然猜透我的心事。本來不打算向別人提及，但原來死仔竟然看破了。是的，我真的有介懷。

有些事，是留給自己比較好。

When two person's opinion differ, bitter words will flood out from one's mouth. Whether there are intentions behind or not, there is no guarantee that the listener won't feel hurt even you are friends for many years. Perhaps the most hurtful words are often brought up by those whom you treasure the most and that comes like an earthquake, it shakens your faith.

Thinking it another way around, people who do not understand your situation won't make them a bad person. An opposition reflects something of a person's attitude, the things that the person values that are grabbed tight onto. Understanding others situations needs wisdom and love from God. For most circumstances with no black and white, it would be a good idea to be swift to listen, slow to speak and slow to wrath (James 1:19). Looking back to several past incidents, I did not perform perfectly well in situations which needed my empathy and patience. But you know life, some time in the future, in some place, you'll suddenly get enlightened like ' oh, why didn't i think it that way before?'. Taking things easier can at least saves some embarassing moments and having empathy towards people of a different opinion preserves relationships. At least, the others will feel respected but not being put off.

The iron is boiling hot and now, it needs some cooling down!